Estranged In-Laws

Dear Estranged In-Laws,

It breaks my heart that you don't have unconditional love for your own flesh and blood. It pains me so deeply to hear my husband utter the words "they chose her over me". How can it be so easy for you to cut off your child when you don't even know the full story? Why was it so easy for you to jump to conclusions. Shouldn't a parent be some type of mediator, and or just leave siblings to handle there own issues? Why isn't anyone fighting to keep the family together. Why don't you realize the only people you are effecting are the grandbabies and yourself. What will you have to say for yourself on your death bed? We don't have much time before it all comes to an end, is this really what you want? To spend your days hating vs loving? To miss out on watching your grandchildren flourish and grown. To miss out on watching your own son flourish and grow into an incredibly successful man? You have it in your mind that he's being controlled and manipulated, but don't you know your son isn't "controllable" he has a mind of his own, a very strong one at that. I may never understand and this may last a life time. All I can do is pray that one day you will find Jesus and he will guide you into a more loving life rather than this.

Sincerely,

Heartbroken Daughter-In Law.