What do we do?

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Little back story. My fiancé has a 5 year old son from a previous relationship that we don’t really think he is the father of. My fiancé and the mother are both Spanish and rather dark skinned with brown eyes. Their son has blonde hair green eyes and is extremely pale and doesn’t really have any features that resemble my fiancé. 
What do we do?

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DNA test..

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Honestly you can’t base paternity off of a child’s looks. Both my mom and dad had brown eyes and brown hair but both me and my sister have blue eyes and blonde hair. Just get a dna test

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My husband and I have a daughter that had some of his features here and there but she’s almost 3 and every growth spurt she changes. 
Right now she looks *nothing* like either of us. Found a photo of my father as a kid; twins.
I have 2 older girls from a previous marriage. Oldest is always looked just like me- nothing like her father. Zero features whatsoever... at 13 yo now; still not ONE paternal feature and she is now the spitting image of my older sister (and when she goes out to California to visit my sister, everyone just assumes that’s her child. They literally look identical)... my 9yo is also a perfect example for this scenario. When she was born, we couldn’t figure out where she came from. Of course we knew she was ours. But she didn’t have any features from either of us. Big head big eyes, , huge ears- and RED hair?? She eventually turned blonde by age 4, but until age 7yo- she still looked like NO ONE on either side of our family (except when she pouted, she’s sort of looked like his mother lol). My ex’s mother showed us photos of her when she was little and yep; definite* resemblance to our second daughter!!! (Ex looks like father to a “T”, but one of us kids at his mothers features)....Now, at 9, she’s changed a lot the last 2yrs and she’s beginning to look more like me... especially my old 4-5th grade photos from childhood.
Do you see my point?
But by all means, asked for DNA test

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So he’s trying to be a deadbeat dad and you wanna help him. Nice.

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Why does color have to matter for him not to be the father 🤦🏼‍♀️ i have a uncle that’s white with green eyes and straight hair he is the only one like that and he is my uncle 🤷🏼‍♀️

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