So ladies and gents, Is he wrong??

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Picture is a little blurry but it says “so my girlfriend had OUR baby 12 weeks ago. I love my girlfriend and even planned on proposing to her. She loss the baby weight but her stomach is covered in stretch marks  and is saggy. It’s hard for me to be intimate with her because it is a turn off. I’ve offered to help pay for surgery to fix it but she says no every time. I’m at the point where I want to break up with her I will be there 100% for MY child just not with her anymore. Am I wrong for wanting to break up over this? Real answers please”

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I think he’s somewhat wrong. He is definitely entitled to his feelings and shouldn’t have to be with her if he’s no longer attracted. But I feel he’s wrong because she just had a baby only 12 weeks ago. It takes some women years to get back to their pre baby body. Is he going to leave every women he gets pregnant? And she carried HIS child so he’s part reason why her body looks like that in the first place. Smh obviously if he could leave her for that he never loved her to begin with. He only loved her body.

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So if they had already been married when she had the child, would he ask for a divorce?? He sounds like a big dick head, and I think she dodged a bullet

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This is so heartbreaking to me. First of all losing weight is hard. Now add that she's got a newborn. So she's clearly a motivated person who tries hard and takes decent care of herself. He loves her personality. But can't give her skin any time to heal? What did it say? 12 weeks?? That's ridiculously fast to expect her to snap back. 
That poor girl. My husband and I tried so long to get this baby in my tummy. And if he left after I made this for us because of something that is out of my control, that would destroy me. My heart just breaks for that poor woman. He is so wrong and needs to be educated on what she's going through. She deserves so much better than this. 😭😭😭

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Well he clearly doesn’t care for her very much to begin with if he’s ready to leave over something like this after only a couple months. Kind of just seems like the easiest excuse to leave, or that he didn’t love her much to begin with
I get having preferences, and being attracted to your partner is obviously important, but being willing to throw away the whole relationship over extra skin and only allowing a couple months before you’re ready to throw in the towel is kind of pathetic

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What a douche canoe. Fuck yes he is wrong. I get not being attracted to someone but mother fucker, that woman just birthed your child 3 months ago! Get the fuck out of here with that shit.

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No he’s not wrong, he should drop her so she can find a REAL man who is going to accept her for who she is no matter what her body looks like. Screw they piece of shit.

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Wtf does he think happens when a woman carries a child? It's hard as hell on the body, and he wants to put her body through more strain by having it "fixed"? Why not just fucking love her? My husband loves my belly because it shows what I've been through for our child. I'd be so disgusted in him if he acted like this man

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Well first that picture is stolen from another story that don’t have anything to do with the story attached. He can feel how he feels,but it’s shitty to down a woman who carried your child for 9 months which is the source of her extra skin. Would a man get a penis implant if his wife said his wasn’t big enough or visually appealing .. I think things that are out of your control shouldn’t be deal breakers,but then again if a man was this vain I’m sure he showed signs way before the pregnancy.

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Yes. It's extremely insensitive. You have to understand when youre in it with someone long term they will change. Their body, their likes/dislikes, everything. Its part of getting older. If he cant handle it he can fuck off so she can get someone who can look beyond her belly.

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You can’t fake attraction. 🤷🏽‍♀️

So ladies and gents, Is he wrong??

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