My parents divorced a year and a half ago. My dad is now remarried and my mom is dating. First my dad always says how my mom is being a slut and sleeping with her boyfriend even though he slept with his now wife before marriage. He says that her black boyfriend is gonna beat her and yes he does say black not just boyfriend, black boyfriend. It pisses me off cause he is clearly racist but he trys to say he isn't and I'm embarrassed to have a racist dad because racism is an awful awful thing. He gets mad at me for everything. His wife gets mad at me for everything. He plays the gilt card on me whenever I try to speak my mind or say I don't want to go with you this weekend. "Why won't you just let me love you" , "stop letting your mother influence you" , and "it kills me when you do this." Are all things he says. No he has never abused me or anything like that but good lord I hate being in a car with him because he always makes me mad, feel guilty, or wanna cry.