Sex toys??

So my partner doesn’t like using sex toys he says he just isn’t into them. I don’t know if his just telling me that because my ex and I used to use them and he doesn’t want our sex to be the same?

Sometimes it just really annoys me because he’ll finish every time and he always questions why I don’t and it’s because he doesn’t touch me down there his given me head like once and played with my clit like 3 times and it usually does the trick so when I tell him he needs to do it more often it’s like he forgets or something and I try and put his hand down there he says if I want my hand down there id put it there.. he then also complains when I go dry and of course it makes me feel terrible but it’s him

I don’t know what to say to him