HELP!

I truly feel like bills and never having enough money to pay for daycare, mortgage, etc is ruining my marriage. I feel so angry with my husband. Idk why he isn’t finding a second job ASAP, or even trying to work night shifts. I work full time, and so does he. I’ve told him he needs to find something and he brushes it off. I know this is making me despise him, idk what to do......