5 months of trying after July miscarriage

We started trying again pretty soon after my miscarriage on July 7. Ovulated around the end of July and we’ve been trying since. I keep reading the statistics that 68% conceive in 3 cycles and 81% in 6 cycles, yet here I am still not pregnant.

Everyone keeps telling me to relax and it’ll happen. This is most often my friends/family who have never had a miscarriage. I just don’t know how to “relax” when every time I start my period it feels like I’m getting punched in the stomach.

I just ovulated December 1st and BD every day but one during my fertile period, so here’s hoping.