Newly diagnosed

So I’m 17 and have just been diagnosed with herpes last week. At first I was mortified, cried an unbelievable amount over thoughts such as being alone forever. The clinic didn’t give me much informational on the disease so I had to research it myself. I’ve only informed a few people close to me in order to get it off my chest. The person who I had slept with has also just been diagnosed so we’re going through it together. Despite being diagnosed with anxiety and depression two weeks ago, I’m now remaining strong around the herpes topic. To myself and those who are also facing this, I have to remind that what is done is done (as there is not currently a cure), however we can not let this define us. As strong people we must accept what has happened and not let it bring us down. It doesn’t make us less of the person we previously were, we just have to keep on top of the disease. Life will inevitably be harder, but that’s what makes us stronger. Future or current partners that won’t accept you for this are not the ones for you (despite you maybe wishing they were). None of us asked for this, even if people wish to blame due to the possible lack of caution. This disease and others are bad enough, let alone letting yourself become emotionally and mentally scarred. After researching discovered (although I am British) 1 in 6 Americans have the disease, of which approximately 80% are unaware of it. It’s not rare and you are not alone. Always remember the stigma is what intensifies herpes and other diseases, so this needs to change. Never feel ashamed to share your story with people or those you wish to tell. The more this is spoke of, the more awareness it brings to the issue and helps be more careful. My advice to those without such or are concerned of being affected, get checked, do so regularly and wear protection where possible.