4 days late...is there a BFP in my future

Hi,

My name is Lynette and I am a 39 year old wife and mom of 3 girls and one bonus son.

When I met my husband last year, the connection was just right. We, for the first time expressed that we wanted to have a child together... the best part of us.

We lovingly reflect on him/her having the other's eyes, smile, etc... even our kids download those goofy apps to merge our faces to see what their future brother, sister would look like.

I had my tubes blocked with essure 7 years ago and we're having surgery in February to unblock and TTC. We've always said "what if" I got pregnant before the surgery.

For the first time ever since we've been together, my cycle was 4 days late. Mind you, AF is predictable as rent 😅. It was supposed to come the 30th.

Last week, from Wed to Sat, I had the looming migraine, but no other symptoms of AF.

Fast forward to yesterday: no physical symptoms, but I started spotting around 12p. When I got home around 7p, there was barely anything to fill a pad. I showered and changed, went to bed at 10:30... still no regular flow, which is heavy, light, gone.

When I got up this morning around 6:30 was when things started cooking. Heavier flow, abdominal cramps (I don't get those) so I drank a large glass of water plus did a 15 min brisk walk to the train station.

I've read stories that others have had BFP after having similar experiences...

just hopeful