Delivery room drama need honest advice and maybe some support I’m feeling super alone

So at first I just wanted it to be my partner and I in l&d but I know that he will only have so much patience with me and I’ve been thinking about having my mom come for a bit during labor for extra support ( a little back story that I’ve posted about before I currently am not speaking to his mom as she has already done wrong by my unborn son and baby will not be allowed at her house due to cockroach poop and fumigation chemicals I don’t think it’s safe for him to breathe in and everything/everyone who comes out of that has smells like roach poop and I’m standing my ground and it’s not personal at all) so I brought up that his mom can come to the hospital after delivery and meet the baby alone because I know she will try and bring his 14yo brother which I’m not comfortable with I won’t even be having my own brothers visit but before I even got to bring that up he starts saying but won’t your mom already be there and I say no just for a little bit during labor and he completely goes off saying that if his mom can’t come than neither can mine and if she does he will yell and cuss her out and throw her out and then I say she’s part of my support system and he says what about his support system I just got really upset and left because he was screaming at me I know it’s his baby to but I feel like this is about me and the baby being safe and he just needs to be supportive but he won’t get that through his head he also got upset because he is godfather to his friends daughter and wants them to be godparents to my child and I don’t even really know them and they definitely would not be the ones to have my son if anything were to happen and I’m not even catholic the baby was never gonna have god parents and so I got yelled at about that to

Now I’m just really upset about how he’s treating the whole thing and even more upset that I cannot have my mom to support me without it being a huge problem and I know it’s gonna be another issue about the baby not being allowed at his moms I was super excited to have the baby and now I’m just dreading it because I don’t wanna have to deal with any of this also why am I being talked to like this I’m just really over the whole thing at this point

I’m being induced next week and am just gonna Uber to the hospital and go through this on my own if he cannot be supportive I just really cannot deal with being yelled at about everything it’s honestly been making me a bit depressed that he’s treating me like this with our son on the way