Please help

I see so many women on here getting their BFP's at 8dpo with lines just getting darker and darker and all I have are BFN's still at 10 dpo...does that mean it's probably a no this time around? I am so disappointed already. I can't believe it's going to take me over a year to conceive this baby. I thought I would be having the baby by now. All this waiting is so hard. :(