How do I get a man? Lol!

7 years ago, when I was 15, I made a commitment to myself, that I will save myself until marriage and only give myself to the man I marry. Currently, at 22 years old, I still stand firmly behind my commitment, but the only thing that has really changed is my desire to have a boyfriend.

To be honest, I’ve never been in a relationship. And I’m at the point where I wanna experience what it’s like to love and to be loved. I don’t know what it is about me, but I feel like I either run off the men I’m trying to talk to or I’m not trying hard enough with men, in general.

For example, when I go out to the bars, left and right, there are guys hitting on girls, buying them drinks, dancing with them, and people even going home together. And when I see this, all I wonder is, why does this never happen to me? Not that I would ever go home with anyone, but it’s just the idea. For some reason the only people that hit on me are men old enough to be my dad.

So I need some advice. How do I get a man? Are there things I need to say or do? Also, I definitely feel like I am too independent, at times, because I have been offered help, but respectfully decline because I’m fine on my own.

Thanks!! ❤️