Help!! I need advice.

So I’ve been with my boyfriend for two years now and we just lost our virginities together in July of this year and before that we would participate in other sexual activities.

Yesterday he told me that he no longer wants to have sex, sex period. All kinds. And he’s not going to masturbate anymore.

He said he’s doing this because he struggles with lust and it’s keeping him from reaching his full potential. He wants me to stand by his side and help him through this journey of him finding himself.

This means I can no longer joke around about sex. Tell him if I masturbate etc.

So I told this to him and said that is is going to cause relational strain on our relationship. So he came up with he idea that I should see it through with him.

No masturbation no sex until marriage.

I need advice. I love him so much and of course I want to support him. But I’m 19 and he’s 18 and we have our

wedding date set four years from now.

I just want to know if anyone else has been through this and has any advice. Or anyone thinks this will end badly.

I’m not saying sex is everything but it’s been apart of our relationship and now I have to be cautious about what I joke around with him with and what I say to him. And wether or not I choose to go through this journey with him in regards to the masturbation.

What do you guys think?