What would yo do?

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This is a story I heard today, so I was wondering what would you do...
There is a girl and she is with some boy. She truly loves him but she doesn’t want to have sex. She is a virgin. She is 16 y.o. He is 17 and sexually active. Yesterday, she found out that he is cheating with one girl (they are only sleeping, so there are no emotions on his side, only sex). He admitted everything and told his friends and that girl that Sarah (his girfriend) is the one he love is and that Sophia (other girl) is the girl he fu*ks... And she decided to stay with him. She says that she doesn’t care cause he loves her and she is not the OTHER GIRL. It’s fine for her as long as it’s just sex. (Because she knows she can’t satisfy him in that way)
I would never be able to stay... Cheating is cheating and I don’t see how can someone who loves you act like this.

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That’s exactly the kind of guy I wouldn’t want to lose my virginity to nor be in a relationship with

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Why 👏 are 👏 guys 👏 like 👏 this?!?? Okay, first off, sex is NOT a human need. Is it a bummer if you don’t have it? Yeah, sometimes. But I can’t tell you how many guys have used the “I need to have sex, which is why I cheated on you.” As a way to justify their scummy behavior. This girl’s boyfriend is a joke. She needs to wake up and realize that if he can’t accept her, every part of her including her reluctance to have sex right now, than he doesn’t respect her AT ALL.

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I would leave because I think his idea about the girl he loves and the girl he fucks is just a reason to cheat. When in actuality, if he really truly loves this girl, he would wait patiently for her knowing that their day would come. He is selfishly fulfilling his desires with another woman, and in my opinion being selfish is not being loving and letting this happen now only means that he will feel free to do in the future as well whenever he feels like he’s not being fully fulfilled. Like let’s say she gets pregnant and doesn’t feel like she can have much sex… Is he going to separate his need for sex and go back to the one he fucks while the one he “loves” is bearing his children? 
I mean if that’s OK with her, I don’t make the boundaries for other peoples relationships, so it is what it is… However, this can cause problems even if she thinks she can handle it now. Generally, if you want a loyal, faithful, monogamous relationship with a person, settling for less is not respecting yourself or loving yourself and it will only cause trouble. So, in my opinion… If what she wants is a loyal, faithful, and monogamous relationship, and she is settling for this, then it’s very clear why she doesn’t understand what it means to actually love a person and wait for them to be ready for sex. She’s not respecting her own needs and wishes.

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I personally couldn’t be in a relationship like that but there are many people that are in open relationship and it works for them

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