"At least you know you can get pregnant!" was probably the phrase I heard the most after my miscarriage. It hurt then, because how is that supposed to make me feel better, but I knew they were coming from a place of caring.

Now that it's been a whole year-and-a-day since I was pregnant last (12/11/17 was the day I started miscarrying), the fact that people said that to me makes me livid. Do I know that? Do I fucking know I can get pregnant? Because its been a year of trying and I'm still not, so no, I *don't* know if I can get pregnant 🙃

If that is what you think "comforting" is, then kindly stfu