My fiancé and I are newly engaged. I keep bouncing back and forth between a big wedding and a really small, intimate wedding. I’ve always dreamed of having a huge wedding but now that I’m older and knowing how shy both my fiancé and I are, I feel like a small, intimate beach ceremony would be more fitting for us.

Who here did a small ceremony and doesn’t regret it at all? Feel free to share pics or whatever! I’ve just entertained the intimate ceremony more times than I can count and today my fiancé was like “I’m just ready to be married.” So I think he’s okay with either, he pretty much just wants whatever will make me happiest.

I should add that my biggest fear is hurting some family’s feelings by not inviting them. Especially on my fiancé’s side. They all can be a little overbearing lol.