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Just found out I’m pregnant in college..This is my last year and I’m earning my masters degree..I have a few months left..I really don’t want to have to leave college..any ladies been through the same things? What did you do? Options?

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A baby isn’t due for 10 months, now 9 months assuming your about 4 weeks. If you only have a few months left then you will be fine. You’ll just be pregnant on you graduation, no need to leave school. Even if you had to take a semester off then you can go back and finish the next. You got this!

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You may want to move this to something like the Abortion Support group. The ladies there are a lot more understanding of situations like these and won’t be so judgmental and trying to push their beliefs down your throat. 
Ultimately this is a decision of whether or not you want to terminate the pregnancy, keep the baby, or put the baby up for adoption. There are many cons to each, and many pros to each as well. 
Abortion is a good option if you do not believe this is the time for you to have a baby. If you don’t believe you could give a baby a good life at the moment, if you just personally cannot see yourself ready for a baby just yet, if you cannot afford to continue the pregnancy, etc. It is not an easy decision, though and may take quite a toll on you. Choosing abortion does not make you any less of a person, is not selfish, and is a personal choice that does not affect anyone but you directly, so don’t let anyone shame you if you choose to go down that option. 
Keeping the pregnancy may interfere with your studies and your ability to get a job after your studies if you do not have one already (unfortunately many employers aren’t known for hiring pregnant ladies). It isn’t impossible to keep the pregnancy if you are in college though, but it will definitely put extra stress in you and make things a lot harder. 
Adoption is a good idea if you don’t see yourself being able to get an abortion, but also don’t want to keep the baby. The downside of this option is that there are huge amounts of kids up for adoption and huge amounts that never actually do get adopted out. 
The best option for you is whatever you believe is the best option for your current and future situation. This is no one else’s choice but yourself. I see a lot of women on here try and guilt people into staying pregnant by using the “so many women can’t have babies and you were blessed with one!” but many fail to see that not every baby is a blessing, and your fertility has nothing to do with other women’s fertility problems. Do what’s best for you and you only. I wish you all the best ☺️

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It’s your last year. Finish it up. If you’re going to be in your third trimester at the time of your finals, talk to your professors. I had my baby during finals week and they helped me out.

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Whatever you do, do not leave college! You’ve got this! Push through, and you’ll just have another story to tell your baby about how it was brought into this world. It’ll think you’re more awesome than what you already are. Good luck love🙏🏽💙

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Im currently 35 weeks pregnant and in college! I wondered if i could do it too but here i am! Its given me more motivation. I get tired easily and overwhelmed but i do it for my baby now. I keep pushing.

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Finish it! You've got a little one and that adds tons more motivation to graduate!

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