Boyfriend wants to break up with me over dildo

Boyfriend wants to break up with me over dildo but he sometimes cums to fast before he lasted longer and now sometimes he just tells me he is tired and falls asleep so I told him that I have needs and he said it sounds like I’m not satisfying you and he gets mad sometimes because he has seen me touching my self under the sheets and he has said put your legs down your should I be using a dildo and masturbating if I have a boyfriend but he doesn’t satisfy my needs like before we did it 7 or 8 times a day he ate me out now he cums really quick we had a lot of morning sex and had sex everyday we live together but he says that he is the one that has to give me pleasure not a dildo and that he wants me to stop using it and sometimes we are in bed and he rubs he’s hand on my clit and then just goes to sleep or says it’s better tommarow that we do it to not get dirty with cum so late like before he woke up at 3 am in the morning and woke me up for sex now he is tired sleepy almost all the time