Ive been going through a divorce for over a year now. My ex has done everything to make ot hard for the kids and i. He took the tags off my car, wouldnt help with the kids at all, no help with daycare nothing, tried to report my loaner car stolen, would make up every excuse not to get the kids and just try and hurt me any way possible. I left him because i have a child from a previous relationship and he was abusive towards him. Well one day he came to get the kids and was trying to get me to pay $50 for a $2 toll claiming it was a ticket. He was on the phone at like he alwats is when he comes around me , and i had to get my sons carseat , as im walking away hes calling me a bitch and how im mad, the same thing he would do every week but i had enough, i told the kids go back in the house and went to walk away and he tried to grab my son away from me and i just told him i was tired of his erratic behavior and we would have to handle visitation in court. He tried to fight me so a neighbor called the police and the police advised me to get a stay away order. I got one and so did he. We both just agreed to stay away from one another and didnt admit to anything. I thought nothing of it because i wouldnt contact him for anything anyway and the judge gave me custody and set up visitation. Hes still says things during drop off but i ignore it and put him on block when its not his time to see the kids. Mind you hmthe judge was going to give him weekends but he only asked for one day a week for 6hours and that was his visitation. Im staying with my mom during thins time and shes getting tired of helping me so we get into it about something so stupid i dont remember but she was snappy about everything tbh since i could nolonger pay her 1200 a month. she puts me and the kids out (never had a good relationship since a kid). Before this we had just went to court for the divorce and the judge ordered him to pay childsupport and weedend visitation with full custody to me. He decides to call my mom although she claims to always have hated him and tell her i said i was going ro kill myself and my kids and if she doeant do anything our blood will be on her hands. He calls a uncle i dont really speak to and tries to tell the same thing to some friends of mine. My mom of all people call cps and my kids are immediately taken. A lady claiming to be this organization i was working with for assistance with finding an apt and other resources (which i found out was illegal) the case has been continued so many timea, i see my oldest child but my two youngest hes moved out of state with his parents and filed for childsupport and custody and wont let me see the kids. We go to court again in January and now my mom is trying to kiss my ass and be nice. Im just so angry. Ive never been away from my kids and this has been since june. Oh and i got an apt july. Sorry im all over the place but im just angry, my kids miss each other and me and i miss my babies the last time i seen them my daughter had bruises up and down both her legs saying thay daddy beat her and the case worker did absolutely nothing. So much more but i honestly dont want to talk about it all and how messed up the system is rn because its making me sad.