Open Marriage... maybe?

Question

Sooo my husband and I have been married for going on five years. We are currently pregnant with our 2nd and since we found out his attraction to me has freaking boomed. Like he wants to try all these new things, like girl on girl, possible 3-some, etc. He seems extremely horny and way kinkier than normal since I’ve been pregnant this time.
When he told me he would be okay with other people, it honestly took me by surprise. It’s always just been us and we’ve always been more than happy and satisfied with each other. I think if I were to give it some thought I could be open to it, but I guess I just wouldn’t know where to start with this whole new area of sexpertise? I don’t know how any of this works! Lol HELP. 
Has anyone ever gone through this same thing?!

Answer

You should read the book The Ethical Slut by Hardy and Easton. 
You do nothing for now. You and your partner continue to discuss these ideas. You figure out where your individual boundaries lie and where the mutual boundaries lie. You keep talking. You have this baby, and when your lives settle back down after adding this second child, then maybe you open up your relationship. 
Basically you wait til these new exciting feels ease. You wait to see what your relationship will be when you’ve added to your family again. Then you are where you stand.

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Me and my husband enjoy the occasional threesome

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I haven’t had an open marriage but myself and fiancé did have a 3some with a mutual friend. 
At first we all thought it would be good and all enjoy it. 
But by the morning myself and fiancé regretted it! 
Just make sure you have a long conversation with your husband and sort out rules etc if you are going to do it.

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Have u asked him y he wants have other people involved ? Do u feel ok with another woman having sex with ur husband, do u feel worried they might have an STD , or ur husband falling for another woman having an open relationship is messy especially when there r kids involved ur husband should be only wanting u not other women there r more things to do to spicy up the marriage not just having sex with other people in the same room. I think u should speak to ur husband or a sex therapist if he is willing that’s my opinion but of course that’s up to u how u feel about having sex with ur husband and other woman or man

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I would only do it if you felt comfortable, because if you don’t, things can go down hill really fast.

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Open marriages are hard. Are you ok with your husband sleeping with other people whenever he wants and then going back to you ? Also, he he going to make sure the women he sleeps with doesn’t have any std that could effect you !

Open Marriage... maybe?

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