Bf can’t express himself

You know those cute long texts of him telling you why he loves you? Or when you pillow talk n he can say them in person?

Yea I’ve never gotten those ....

He says “he can’t find the words”

I’m starting to think he can’t find the words bc he just doesn’t feel them.....

😔

In the beginning I wanted to share how much I was falling for him and all my feelings about how happy I was but it was never reciprocated verbally and so I stopped.

Is it weird that I need that? I wanna be told these things?

Is it an insecurity thing? Validation? Should I get over it and just be happy he’s with me.

Or is it a “love language”? Something I need to feel loved and happy in a relationship?

I have asked him to try n put it into words for me n he never has. Going on two years together.