Expecting a daughter

Already I worry, no joke every woman I know on a personal level has been molested /assaulted/raped/taken advantage of, many denied various opportunities because they are women, so many in shitty relationships... I thought I was having a son and I was so excited to raise a man right, now I'm terrified I will have to feign surprise when she tells me(if she tells me) she suffered these abuses, mistreatment... Or watch her get gaslit, dismissed... Not sure this is the right spot but I posted somewhere else and got blasted with MRA moms...