Sit tight cause this will be a little long, but i feel i need to explain some things throughly in order to get good advice. I am 17 weeks pregnant and have been with my boyfriend for 10 months. A few days ago he was diagnosed with a prostate infection, and then on christmas he got a call back from blood work and it turns out he has chlamydia. I was tested in october for my first prenatal examine and everything came back negative. I keep wanting to give this man the benefit of the doubt that he was loyal and didnt cheat. The doctors told him it can lay dormant for years without knowing. Now the problem to me is, if he was a carrier i would still have gotten chlamydia way earlier in our relationship from him. If i was the carrier, it wouldve shown in my PAP test from my first prenatal visit. A few months ago maybe 2-4 i noticed he had a dry spot around the tip of his penis and mentioned it bothered me and that he should go get checked, he fought me on it, said there was no way he had anything and he had just been tested for everything a few months prior to us dating. Fast forward to today, and hes been acting so strange. Really distant and almost mad at me for being worried and upset. I dont want to ruin our entire relationship by accusing him of cheating, but at this point it all doesnt add up... If he was a carrier for a long time, i wouldve got it a long time ago from him. But since ive been recently tested, even mulitiple times this year, it leads me to believe this was much more recent...the chances of me getting pregnant while he had a dormant STD is also very low. So once again, it leads me to think this is recent. Ive had suspicions of cheating, but this really just derails our relationship for the time being. He doesnt want to talk about it, says he doesnt even know who it could be from and admitted to me he couldnt even count or remember how many different women hes slept with before me. Hes never used condoms before with any of his past hookups. For the past three weeks ive had constant night terrors of him cheating on me, leaving me, and now theyre only going to get worse. I feel so embaressed and confused.