My husband and I and our one year old live with his parents, paying half the bills, buying food etc. So no handouts. Well my husband and his father both work for the same company. My husband works a cyber saw and his dad delivers the wood.

The 2 are on different shifts. My husband and I are on night shift (I stay at home , but still like to have same schedule as him). Father in law works 6am-6pm, husband works 2pm-2am.

Father in law is complaining that the baby needs to be on his schedule so that she's not waking him up throughout the night with her sounds/noises. However husband wants her(and me) on his schedule so that we can spend more time together.

I'm always super considerate. But right now I'm having a hard time deciding on what to do. I mean kids are kids. They make noise and there's not much you can do.

His parents expect me to be on there schedule since I'm a stay at home mom. Obviously I feel the need to stick with my husbands opinion, since that's my spouse.

HELP!