I can’t stand it. I know that maybe I’m too emotional sometimes, but I get nothing from him! It’s infuriating. Today I called him to let me know that I had to go in to get an ultrasound done of my breast because I have a large lump from mastitis and they thought it might be an abscess. Instead of asking if I was alright or lending any sort of comfort. He goes on to ask how much was it going to cost and all about prices and how to pay for it if we had to then and there.

It turned out now to be an abscess (which sucks only because I’m in tons of pain) and when I told my husband he went in to say that’s how doctors get you to pay for things you don’t need. Not a single comforting word.

We’ve had so many arguments about this and he always says he’ll try harder but I feel like nothing has been done. I’m so tired of feeling unappreciated. I see posts on here about the sweet things peoples partners have said or done and I get so upset because I know that’s never going to be me.

Most of the time I can handle it and it doesn’t bother me as much. But I’ve been feeling horrible because of this mastitis but still manage to clean the house and make dinner, yet he doesn’t acknowledge the things I’ve done.