He had an affair, I moved home (abroad) to be with family to have support with our 7 month old. He says he wants to make it work but so far he sucks at speaking to me on the phone (both frequency and content of conversation), I just feel like he isn't trying hard enough. We both agree he has strong Narcasistic traits. My faith encourages reconciliation and we are starting counselling soon but I feel like he wants to stay married for all the wrong reasons (image). How do you know if he's for real? My heart is not entirely in it, I'm just trying for my baby girl for now. If it doesn't work I've no issue leaving him. It's so so sad. Affair, prostitutes, for months and no support with anything at home.