How do you like initiating with your man?

When we are in bed I like going on top of him:

- if he is on his back I just look at him and start kissing him (while on top with my legs on his sides)

- if he is on his belly I literally lay on top of him until he gives me attention

I guess I need better ways to catch his attention... any ideas girls? Tell me your secret I want it to be effective but at the same time subte... i dont feel that comfortable doing too sexy things, but if you do tell me those too! I'm just really curious ;)

EDIT: yes lol I lay on top of him like this, but I am the one with my arm crossed on his back and my head laying on top.

I do it when he is just there laying doing nothing (and he's not sleeping, obviously).

Also I am not that big and it's not like I just lay there for hours... I do it like a few minutes until he turns around