My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months. I have been in multiple verbally abusive relationships but I never brought into this one. My boyfriend feels like he has to make up for that but I often tell him it’s not his fault and responsibility. We have both been on winter break from school and things have gotten a little rough. Before things got rough we both don’t know how to properly communicate. Either he would say too little or I would loose my temper. Recently we got in a bad argument and didn’t talk for 4 days. Since then We had a long talk and we talked about everything that went wrong in our relationship and we both wanted to start over. We have lately agreed that we rushed and missed important steps in our relationship but we agreed that during this time we aren’t suppose to see other people. He has lately been doing other things to the point where we barely talk and I feel like I’m losing him. During this semester, I know he wants to be successful in school, work and his projects. I want to work better on being more patient and understanding but I don’t want to seem weak by waiting around and he has fallen out of love with me. I don’t want to be too needy and seem like I’m begging so how do I do that and plus make him fall in love with me all over again?