Fertility testing

Natalie • Mommy of a little boy ❤️

So my husband and I are at month 8 of ttc and after a year of trying the military will pay for us to have fertility testing. For women what tests do they do and how does it all go. Also unrelated anyone have any tips on how not to stress while trying because I get worked up and get very depressed every time I Aunt Flo shows up.