advice?

Alicia

so about 3 weeks ago i was spotting, kinda alot, was in the hospital for a few hrs but they said everything was fine.. Christmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a>, I was at my OBGYN & she also said everything was fine & the baby even had a heartbeat & said she didnt see any blood around my baby🥰, im now 8w3d, wen i went on Christmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">eve</a>, she told me NO SEX & gave me bedrest for 2 weeks but im guessing it was only cause i was spotting right? i dont have my next appt until wednesday, & idk if i should wait until wednesday to ask my OB if i can have sex or if i should just do it already since the spotting went away 4 days ago, i’ve just really been wanting my husband & i know he does too 🙊😂 i feel wierd saying it on here lol so idk should i wait or surprise him later with something 😍 & also, since the spotting has gone away, i’ve noticed kinda clear discharge, is this normal? its my first baby so i’d really appreciate some advice. Thanks!