I’m 31 weeks today 🎉😊 these last few weeks are getting more difficult with getting things done physically...

On Tuesday I was close to breaking point, cleaning the house from top to bottom and tidying up post-New Year etc... following day my back was killing me 😭. I have been at work since then, been having some long days with no sleep. I asked my husband if he’d just keep the level of cleanliness as it was as he has had the rest of the week off work.... a few days later, kitchen is a tip... dirty dishes... pet litter trays not cleaned out.... clothes wash only half sorted out... floors are dirty..... I think he tries, but in solving one mess he tends to leave another. I feel like crying 😢 . I physically can’t do everything. He knows this and he sees me struggle but he’s not doing enough and he shouted at me today because I’ve asked him to do more. He already cooks most nights, although that usually always leaves a big mess in the kitchen. He’s got this impression in his head that he does half of everything and just as much as me... he just can’t see.