He won’t choke me

So I met up with a guy who I’m really interested in, from a dating app. We clicked right away & slept together the first night.

Oh my god, and he is perfect in bed. & rough but so soft with me at the same time 😍

But it was a moment where I wanted him to choke me and he did for a second , but he didn’t even squeeze like how I wanted him to and I kept putting my hand around his to show him but he wouldn’t do it. Is he scared or something like...🙄😂😂