Which one is the best?

Question

I can't use pills and nothing that somehow my parents are going to notice. (I'm a virgin) Can someone explain to me which birth control can I  use other than condoms?
I have a big problem cause my parents are racist, they hate my boyfriend, but I really like him and I think it's time for me to go to the next stage with (I'm 19 years old). Please help😬

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You should be able to go to your local family planning and they can give you all information you need about the various options. And they are discreet. 
I tried the depo shot and I had some slight weight gain, which is normal, and mood issues. If you don't want a shot you could try something like the nuva ring. I wouldn't recommend the IUD considering your being a virgin and i just had mine put in and was told that an individual that has not given birth will normally have a smaller/more closed cervix and it may cause more pain upon insertion. If you can get through that initial pain/cramping it may be a good choice.

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If you get the implant in your arm it'll be like your little secret. Nobody should be able to tell unless you tell them or show them by pushing on it. The only downside is your parents might notice the bruising after its inserted, and you have to keep a bandage on your arm for a short while. I'd suggest just wearing long sleeves until the bruising is gone and disposing of the bandage where they can't find it. The implant will last three whole years so you won't need to go back to the doctor often which will help you hide it. Another option they won't be able to tell you have is an IUD, but if you choose this option I suggest Skyla, because it's the smallest and you're a virgin, it'll just hurt less during insertion than the other IUD options. Once you leave the office with the IUD in place your parents will have no way to tell you have it. Skyla lasts for three years, and the bigger IUDs last longer (Mirena for five years, Paraguard for ten years). I honestly wouldn't recommend Paraguard unless you've had a baby though if I'm being honest and especially not to a virgin. I tried to get Paraguard as a person who had sex more times than I count count, and my cervix did not like being stretched that far let me tell you! It was a miserable experience. But don't let my expirience scare you away, every IUD brand is different and so is everyone's bodies. An IUD gets imserted in your uterus by an OBGYN going up through your vagina though, so if you aren't comfortable with that I'd go with the implant.

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Depo (the shot) ...

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