Partner doesn’t want to have sex

Sam

So... we’re TTC but my partner is always too tired to have sex. Says he wants a baby but gets freaked out if I tell him when I’m fertile (too much pressure) so says to just have sex and let it happen. Which would be fine, but my cycles are really irregular so I have to use OPK’s to know what’s going on and when to expect AF. So when they’re getting darker/positive I try to instigate sex more. Tonight my test was positive but he’s too tired and said I’m being stupid for getting annoyed that he doesn’t want to have sex (again). So fed up 😩 how is this ever going to work!