My parents are the reason my boyfriend and I broke up.

So I'm 20 and my now ex is 25 and he has a little one. He is all about principals and the kid first which I respect. He had a lot of drama with the baby mama and therefore when our relationship continued and my family caused drama and prevented me from doing things like seeing him or twisting things it pushed my boyfriend away and he said, "this isn't what I want for my kid one day. I want a good environment for him. There is nothing wrong with you". Now I get this but part of me doesn't. I never met the kid because we were still newly dating. Me and the guy still have feelings for each other and he's going to be a cop and now I'm in a situation that puts more stress on our situation. I'm really heartbroken about it. I'm trying everything I can to work it out but he's a I think principals and my kid not feelings. So it's making it hard. Really hard.