How to breakup with my bf

I have been with my boyfriend for 1yr 6mths. But I have been thinking about breaking up with him but I just can’t come to it. I mean we haven’t seen each other for a while now. We don’t talk on the phone anymore (which I liked better than texting), we barely text as well. The few last times we saw each other we never kissed, we were distance and haven’t said I love you for a long time.

I know it’s time to call it quits because honestly I’m getting tired of this and I’m simply not happy with how things are going.

The problem is that our families like that we are dating. Specially his family, they bring up us living together, getting married and having kids. Which makes things harder for me to break up with him. The bad thing is that we go to the same church. So I see them and obviously him four times a week. & everyone from church knows we are together, we got presented and everything (we were the first couple to ever get presented as well). Whenever he doesn’t go, they’re always asking me why he couldn’t make it or vice versa.

It’s going to be really awkward when they see that we aren’t together anymore. & I’m going to feel uncomfortable when I see his family. I just don’t know what to. I don’t want there to be problems or anything. I’m just not happy anymore with our relationship since things are not going well.