Husband REALLY want another baby

I just need to VENT!! We just had our first daughter in September. She was definitely unplanned, and we were sooo scared. But now that we have adjusted, we couldn’t be more in love with her. She is what I needed in my life, and I didn’t even know it. With that being said, I don’t want to have another baby for a while.. we both have full time jobs, both of our jobs send us places all the time. To other states, even countries. For weeks, sometimes months! It just doesn’t make sense. But my husband wants another one ALREADY (it hasn’t even been four months). He won’t wear a condom and the other day he waited until 2 days after we had sex to tell me that he wasn’t confident that he pulled out in time (I know, I know. I shouldn’t have had sex without some kind of protection if I didn’t want a baby.) So because of that, I went and got a plan B, and am getting the IUD tomorrow. That way if he won’t wear a condom, I’ll at least be on birth control. When I told him, he got really upset... he just didn’t understand why I wouldn’t want another baby right now. Am I in the wrong for getting emergency contraceptive and birth control?! Was that mean? I just feel so bad, because I’m keeping him from something he wants so bad. And on top of that I feel so guilty because I know couple TTC that are trying so hard to get pregnant, and probably hate people who take for granted the ability to easily get pregnant. I wish I could lend people my uterus.. ugh sorry y’all, just had to vent..

A picture of my hubby and our daughter soon after she was born ❤️