STOP TELLING PEOPLE HOW TO RAISE THEIR CHILD!!!! I swear what’s so hard about that!! Each child is raised different not every child is raised the same.. if you don’t want to spank your child don’t, if you believe breastfeeding is best fine, your child is still getting nutrition from either breast or formula. If you don’t want your child’s ears pierced that’s your opinion. Boy or girl , your child will not hate you because I’m pretty sure getting your children shots piss them off ,but your doing it to keep them healthy. If you don’t want to vaccinate your child that’s fine! To each it’s own. I’m pretty sure your parents did things to you that pissed you off. We will never agree on anything that’s the point of being human. You make mistakes in life, live ,learn, and you better yourself. Your child never hated you after you did things they didn’t like. You raise your child to your own likeness and worry about your child and make sure your child is safe, protected,and loved before you worry about someone else’s child.