Hey everyone! So long story short, I’m 26 and married to the love of my life. We have two kids together.

Well, I’m a little to middle depending on stress etc. Usually 9ish-15.

I love hubby but he doesn’t understand my need for little space. It weirds him out since we have kids who call him daddy too.

The first time I talked to him about all of this, he started letting me call him daddy during sex and stuff, and calls me baby girl but that’s it. He doesn’t get why I need that other times as well. What can I do to let him know how much I need my time? I’ve tried talking to him about it a lot but I guess I’m still not saying the right things? I’m already insecure as hell about my needs, him not getting it tends to make me shrink up inside, if that makes sense?

Sorry this is all so long 😓