Starting to get really nervous

Ok so yesterday: I went to poop and all of a sudden started peeing but I didn't need to per nor did I feel it and it was like a sudden gush I'm only 23 weeks n I think it was just pee cuz I haven't been leaking or anything but have since felt discomfort like in my back n nausea and loose stools yuck I dunno if it's just all in my head. I would go to the Er to make sure my watter didn't break but I have a job and can't just run off to the er I've done that so many times when I was early on 😔😔no bleeding no leaking no nothing and I feel baby kick normally just feeling a little paranoid especially since I have back ache today and stomach discomfort. Not cramps tho!! So can anyone tell me (second time moms) what does it feel like when your watter breaks.. God forbid it breaks now we'de be in trouble! Also does it sound like I explained?