Should I ask my mom/ sisters for a vibrator?

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So I’m 13 and I want a vibrator, but I’m not sure if I should ask my mom or one of my sisters to get me one. Should I take my chances and ask?

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If my daughter asked me for a vibrator....

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I honestly think it depends on what your relationship is like with your mom and sisters girl 🤷🏼‍♀️

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That would be hella awkward 😂

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I would learn your body first. Get to know it. Learn how to give yourself the O. Then introduce it later on in life. Otherwise you may become dependent on it and it’ll be the only thing you can use.

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If you feel comfortable, then ask. I’d rather have my child talk to me about sexual feelings and questions so I know they’re informed and safe, however if you don’t want to or she says no (because you are young and good ones are upwards of $80) try other things. Explore yourself, and a little secret? Bath faucets and back massagers feel great too. You could definitely ask her for a massager.

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I wouldn’t chance it yet 😬 try some other things first at 13 it might seem like too much in a mother’s view. A vibrator that young is going to make you use to it and then you might not care about actually exploring other ways in my opinion. I would try some different stuff first. Use fingers, water stream, rubbing there are more then vibrators. You don’t wanna hurt yourself either some of the vibrations might be too much.  Just some advice 🤷🏽‍♀️ my cousin is around your age and I’m just telling you what I’d tell her.

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Suuuuuuper awkward lol. I don’t think that would hold over well. In a parents mind sometimes they think it opens doors for other sexual activity. But it really depends on your relationship. I wouldn’t get my daughter one, that’s just me.

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It depends I had a friend who asked her mom at that age for a vibrator- she just was honest and told her she was having sexual urges but didn't want to have sex until she was older and her mom got her one. It depends on the parent I guess

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Personally I know my relationship with my mother would not have been one where I would consider this question lol. My sister was prudish as well. But also at 13 I had a blast just experimenting with my fingers and what I liked and where I liked it. We had a great shower head too. My suggestion is have some fun like this because there's a lot to have and then in a couple years consider a vibrator. Don't wait forever; I didn't get my first until I was 29ish and I wish I hadn't waited so long lol. I think it's great if you have a relationship like that with your mom though! Good luck and have fun!

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Not really something to ask about in my opinion. Your sexual life is something you dont share with anyone... unless its talking about the safety of it etc.. with a parent or guardian.  I would honeslty just get a Visa gift card and buy one of Adam and eve, you can even ship it to a friends house or something so your mom doesnt see.

Should I ask my mom/ sisters for a vibrator?

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