Early menopause??

So I’m 28 I will be 29 in August... and I’ve been doing research on some of the crazy symptoms I’ve been having here lately.

I would like y’all’s opinion and advice if you don’t mind...

My periods growin up was never what you would call regular... after I had my son I done the depo shot for 5 years.. loved it!

My periods up until about 4 months ago was some what regular...

Now it’s going back and forth from being really light one month to really heavy the next... and being like 70 some odd days apart...

Ive also had some issues where my sex drive is almost non existent!

Some of the pages I’ve seen say it maybe possible early menopause.. my aunt went thru it about the same age I am now... and no one on my moms side has made it to menopause without having to have surgery of some sort...