my virginity, help!!

i’m 19 & i’m going into my second semester at college. all of my friends have already fucked like 9 guys by now and i’m so bored. i waited so long to lose my virginity that i’m still stuck with it. i want to lose it but i don’t want to lose it to just joe shmow ya know? a lot of dudes hit me up & talk to me. i made a tinder & had 700 matches & over 200 on bumble. i don’t know what to do. i feel like they all just want sex. i don’t want a relationship but i want to lose it to somebody i care about. what should i do? i’m horny as fuck i just want to bang them out at this point but i’ve waited for so long i don’t think i should just fuck a random. please help.