Please tell me I’m not alone...
I’m 15 weeks pregnant with my first (his first too) but I feel like I’m alone in this. My family has been so supportive and accepting, but he shows no interest. This baby wasn’t planned, but we decided together that we would have the baby and do everything we could to give what we bring into this world all of our love. But now he’s detached. He doesn’t touch my belly, ask about baby, ask for updates, nothing. I felt our little ones first kick, not flutters like an actual real kick (short and definitely not strong, but I felt it) I was so excited, but couldn’t even bring myself to tell him. He hasn’t wanted anything to do with me or this pregnancy at all. We haven’t been intimate in over a month. I’ve started showing and my belly’s not 100% cute and round it’s still kindof bloated and he makes comments about my weight. Subliminal things when we’re getting food. But it makes me so self conscious like I’m ashamed to be around him. I try and eat when he’s not in the room and I try to keep my naked body from him because I feel like I disgust him. I change in the bathroom, always try to keep myself covered. It’s gotten to the point where he comes to bed at night and once he’s asleep I leave the room and sit downstairs in the dark and just cry for hours until I fall asleep. I love him and I know he loves me because he does show he cares about me. I just don’t think he realizes how much what he’s doing is hurting me and it honestly hurts to the point where I can’t even confront him about it, because I’ll just break down. We don’t have any issues in our relationship besides this. I’m not leaving him, but I’m not happy with how things are in this area of our relationship and I don’t even know how to go about telling him. Can anyone else relate? I just feel so alone in this and it’s starting to really get to me
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