I’m divorced and have been alone for years. I have three young kids, and I have them 24/7 . There is an older guy that really likes me (10 years). I think he’s very nice and I’ve known him a long time. I don’t have a lot of attraction to him though. I can’t decide if it’s just from being in bad relationships or not. I do think he’s good looking. Anyway, I’ve been thinking about dating him. I know he would be a good man. He thinks I am the best thing to ever happen to earth lol. He’s great with my kiddos and his kiddos love me. I feel like he would treat me like a goddess, and give me and my kids a good life with a lot of love & comfort in it . He could give us things that I can not give us.

Anyhow, my friends thinks I should keep waiting until I find a real true love . Someone I’m just crazy about. Honestly though, I don’t think I believe in that anymore. Should I date this guy, and see if we can make each other happy even if it’s not puppy love???