I know many of you have gone through miscarriages several weeks in or even in your in your second and third trimesters. I can't even imagine the sorrow you feel. And many of you are like me and have only had chemical pregnancies. I had a chemical in June and September of last year. The first one was so short my period came on time and with the second one I was pregnant for an entire week before my period came. Nonetheless, after a couple days of crying the second time I thought I was ready to tough it out and move on. Over the next 3 months I didn't want to try. And I hated myself for it. I thought, "You're so sad that you lost a baby, why aren't you trying even harder to get pregnant again?" I didn't realize I would be one that would need to take a break from TTC for several months to recover from something "as trivial as a chemical pregnancy", I thought. However I'm happy to say that DH and I are both ready to start trying again! O day is tomorrow and we've been happily BDing the past handful of days. For those of you who might think they don't need to take a break, don't be afraid to. God will bless you with a baby at the right time. And you will never be given more than you can handle. Handle it however you need to. ❤