June 10, 2017 I married a man I was with for 5 years. My parents took care of the whole wedding & husband at the time told my mom to take out a loan & he will gradually pay her back for the wedding. The loan was for $20,000. As soon as we got married he got depressed, he stopped showering, he would leave food in the bed, he would ignore me and so on. December 2017 I was fed up with his behavior. He went to the psychiatrist and no change. That same month I seen his email logged into my computer and seen a website MYTRANSEXUALDATE.COM

He was speaking to women from 18-72 that were men. His profile claimed it was not his first time and I did catch him watching transsexual porn. I immediately filed for divorce.

Fast forward a little, he stopped paying me back and left me in tons of debt. He wrote a handwritten note stating he will pay me back the money but he has not paid me back and his parents blocked me on everything.

Now, I do not want this man in my life. I am currently very happy in my new relationship but I am in tons of debt because of this man.

He lied to me, deceived my parents and left me to rot with all of his debt he promised to pay back... what can I do? I don’t have a lot of money for an attorney, but I feel like he ruined my trust and my life. My one wedding day that was supposed to be special is gone. I feel like such a loser, I know I shouldn’t because I have such a great man by my side now but paying $600+ a month for this loan is killing me!