Me and my bf have been dating for 5 months now. We both have our own places, but I’ve been staying at his place for the last 2 months yet I’m still paying rent at my apartment & it’s kind of crazy for me. I never moved in with someone so fast or even thought about it.

I brought it up to him last night and he said it’s too soon to move in together. While I agree, there’s still the fact I’ve been paying for my apartment & he doesn’t really want me to go home. I am just a little confused honestly.

What should I do? Why would he intentionally have me stay over here for so long to say he’s not ready for us to move in yet? It’s like his mouth says one thing and then he does something different from what he says he wants 🤔.

Last night after we had the conversation it only felt right to pack my stuff and go home for a few days... as I’m packing me bags, he walks into the room and stops me and practically begs me to stay the night again... ha. I don’t have a problem with it, but i have a problem with not knowing where exactly is this leading to...