8dpo and bfn

Liza • 👦🏻 5/5/16 👼 8/13/18 🌈 👶🏻 12/15/19 👧 12/4/2019 (our 🌈 baby came early) 🤰with baby number 3

8dpo and still bfn- I am really hoping this is my month- cervix is still soft and high- and I’m still having cm (milky, clear, and stretchy)- I usually don’t have any after ovulation is over! What is going on???