My relationship has always been outstanding. We are going on four years and expecting within the next month along with our almost 4 year old daughter.

Recently I’ve been feeling uneasy. My husband spends a ton of time playing computer/video games- which I’m normally fine with- but our sex life has gone down the drain.. being 9 months pregnant of course it’s hard to have sex in any position, but I need some type of affection. I’ve gained 60 pounds, I’m itchy everywhere, stretch marks gallor, I feel just gross.

My husband got a urethral surgery a month and a half ago so that took away from our sex life with recovery and he is still trying to “get it up” without the pain and his orgasm is not as effective for lack of better term as it was. So I’ve laid off trying to get him to have sex with me since I know he is still recovering.

But I noticed on his computer that he had been on porn websites recently on nights that he had been staying up later than me. And I don’t have a problem with porn, yknow power to you. But this hurt because I thought he was in pain and didn’t want to have sex but he is looking at porn and I’m assuming masturbating too?

Am I right to feel a little hurt by it?

I did confront him and he says he watches it when I don’t want to have sex. But recently I’ve wanted to but he has brushed off everytime I’ve reached out for affection.

I’m just very pregnant, feeling very lonely, and afraid it’s not going to get better.